Living means having needs. And having needs means there’s always a gap between “how things are” and “how we want them to be.” Closing those gaps? That’s literally problem-solving. You’re hungry, so you need food. You’re tired but have work tomorrow, so you need to balance rest and responsibility. Your phone battery is dying, your inbox is full, your friend needs help moving, and you haven’t figured out dinner yet.
Every single one of these is a problem, which means your brain is constantly in problem-solving mode. This isn’t a bug—it’s a feature of being alive. But here’s the good news: while you can’t eliminate all problems, you absolutely can learn to chill more reliably. I will explain why life feels this way and give you practical strategies to reduce needless stress without becoming irresponsible or checking out.
Dispatches From The Front 